The Psychology of

Human Sexuality

An Intelligent Perspective of Sex

THE COURSE: AN OVERVIEW

 

WHAT SEX GOT TO DO WITH IT

 

Was SEX designed for the purpose of serving yourself or to serve your partner?

Why is the woman considered a hotplate and the man a gas stove?

Why is it that a man may have a quarrel with his wife at 9:00 pm and "be ready" at 9:10 pm? But for the woman, she may not be ready until 10:00 pm- the next day?

Sex: The distinctive differences between men and women

What's the relationship between spirituality and sex?

Words to say to your wife to excite her sexual desire and the words that kill her interest

Why is sex so important to a man?

The clitoris. Why is it studded with 8000 nerve endings?

 Some of the primary causes of low libido, and what you can do to help.

AUDIO
Understanding Women:
Her psychological nature and
sexual nature are linked

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Sex: The distinctive differences between men and women

WHAT IS SEX?  A Scientific Understanding

 

Sex is anything two people can do to evoke or satisfy erotic feelings. "Erotic" here: That which makes you feel sexual desire and/or arousal

 

Why does sex feel good? 

Our brains and endocrine systems are what create emotions, which represent one part of how sex feels. The brain and central nervous system are also responsible for sexual responses like orgasm.

 

During sexual pleasure, all the nerve endings of your body (including your genitals, all linked to your nervous system) are in concert and communication with your brain, and vice-versa.

 

Without everything going on in our brains, we wouldn’t have any interest in sex at all, nor find sex anything of interest. This brings me my my next point.

 

IF MEN UNDERSTOOD THE CONNECTION BETWEEN THE MIND AND BODY OF A WOMAN, WOULDN'T THEY BE CAREFUL TO TREAT HER WITH TLC, TO IMPROVE HER SEXUAL RESPONSE?

 

IF WOMEN UNDERSTOOD A MAN'S NEED FOR SEX, WOULD SHE BE MORE THOUGHTFUL ENGAGING?

 

*Why do you take your car to the gas station? Do you drink gas? NO!  But the car needs gas. Giving the car what it needs? Is this analogy plausible, as it relates to sex?

 

Why does sex hurt sometime?

 

* Not enough lubrication?

 

* Insufficient arousal ?   The body reacts to arousal with blood flow to the genitals

Why a course on sex?

Why a course on SEX

 

  1. Many married women are concerned that they live for years without ever experiencing real sexual pleasure. This is primarily because of ignorance. Ignorance on the part of their husband and themselves

  2. Many are apostatizing from the church in droves because of a lack of understanding about sex. (9/13)

  3. Many young people fall victims to serious pitfalls regarding sex, because of a lack of understanding of their own body and also, not understanding the opposite sex.

  4. Many marriages end in divorce due to the inability to effectively discuss and resolve sexual issues in marriage

  5. Many married partners become unfaithful due to lack of understanding how sex or the lack thereof can potentially impact the marriage.

  6.  God created SEX.

DOES GOD ENDORSE SEX?

"Better to marry than to burn with passion." (italics supplied) 1. Corinthians 7:9

"Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled."  Heb. 13:4

"Defraud ye not one another."  1. Cor. 7: 5

How to talk about sex in marriage

 

 

How to talk about SEX

 

* Did you know that the reason many don't communicate about the subject of sex is that they know little or nothing about the subject, so they are more comfortable avoiding it.

 

  • DON'T TRY TO READ MIND, JUST ASK HIM/HER

  • Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument

  • Never make assumption. Get the facts

Sex. A Spiritual Perspective

God created SEX.

DOES GOD ENDORSE SEX?

"Better to marry than to burn with passion." (italics supplied) 1. Corinthians 7:9

 

"Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled."  Heb. 13:4

"Defraud ye not one another."  1. Cor. 7: 5

Additional Resources

Additional Resources

  • Understanding Women

  • Understand the man's world

  • The distinctive differences between men and women with regards to sex

The Clitoris is known as the Powerhouse of Pleasure for the woman.

 

For some women, the stimulation of the clitoris is more important for orgasm than penetration

 

The Clitoris has 8000 nerve endings. More than twice that of the penis

 

Be Clitorate 

Enter by invitation: Both parties should be aroused before penetration. Remember, the brain is the most important sex organ.