The Psychology of
Human Sexuality
An Intelligent Perspective of Sex
THE COURSE: AN OVERVIEW
WHAT IS SEX? A Scientific Understanding
Sex is anything two people can do to evoke or satisfy erotic feelings. "Erotic" here: That which makes you feel sexual desire and/or arousal
Why does sex feel good?
Our brains and endocrine systems are what create emotions, which represent one part of how sex feels. The brain and central nervous system are also responsible for sexual responses like orgasm.
During sexual pleasure, all the nerve endings of your body (including your genitals, all linked to your nervous system) are in concert and communication with your brain, and vice-versa.
Without everything going on in our brains, we wouldn’t have any interest in sex at all, nor find sex anything of interest. This brings me my my next point.
IF MEN UNDERSTOOD THE CONNECTION BETWEEN THE MIND AND BODY OF A WOMAN, WOULDN'T THEY BE CAREFUL TO TREAT HER WITH TLC, TO IMPROVE HER SEXUAL RESPONSE?
IF WOMEN UNDERSTOOD A MAN'S NEED FOR SEX, WOULD SHE BE MORE THOUGHTFUL ENGAGING?
*Why do you take your car to the gas station? Do you drink gas? NO! But the car needs gas. Giving the car what it needs? Is this analogy plausible, as it relates to sex?
Why does sex hurt sometime?
* Not enough lubrication?
* Insufficient arousal ? The body reacts to arousal with blood flow to the genitals
Why a course on sex?
Why a course on SEX
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Many married women are concerned that they live for years without ever experiencing real sexual pleasure. This is primarily because of ignorance. Ignorance on the part of their husband and themselves
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Many are apostatizing from the church in droves because of a lack of understanding about sex. (9/13)
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Many young people fall victims to serious pitfalls regarding sex, because of a lack of understanding of their own body and also, not understanding the opposite sex.
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Many marriages end in divorce due to the inability to effectively discuss and resolve sexual issues in marriage
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Many married partners become unfaithful due to lack of understanding how sex or the lack thereof can potentially impact the marriage.
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God created SEX.
DOES GOD ENDORSE SEX?
"Better to marry than to burn with passion." (italics supplied) 1. Corinthians 7:9
"Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled." Heb. 13:4
"Defraud ye not one another." 1. Cor. 7: 5
How to talk about sex in marriage
How to talk about SEX
* Did you know that the reason many don't communicate about the subject of sex is that they know little or nothing about the subject, so they are more comfortable avoiding it.
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DON'T TRY TO READ MIND, JUST ASK HIM/HER
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Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument
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Never make assumption. Get the facts
Sex. A Spiritual Perspective
God created SEX.
DOES GOD ENDORSE SEX?
"Better to marry than to burn with passion." (italics supplied) 1. Corinthians 7:9
"Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled." Heb. 13:4
"Defraud ye not one another." 1. Cor. 7: 5
Additional Resources
Additional Resources
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Understanding Women
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Understand the man's world
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The distinctive differences between men and women with regards to sex
The Clitoris is known as the Powerhouse of Pleasure for the woman.
For some women, the stimulation of the clitoris is more important for orgasm than penetration
The Clitoris has 8000 nerve endings. More than twice that of the penis
Be Clitorate
Enter by invitation: Both parties should be aroused before penetration. Remember, the brain is the most important sex organ.